tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26283787.post6182687659787000298..comments2023-09-26T03:04:17.834-07:00Comments on inside nuTt: "It's not You, It's Me" ~ the Breakup tales~nuTt*~http://www.blogger.com/profile/18149294592306074402noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26283787.post-49273256660622238612011-01-31T08:06:12.236-08:002011-01-31T08:06:12.236-08:00hmmm...interesting point; handling things differen...hmmm...interesting point; handling things differently.<br /><br />i wonder if it HAS to be that way.<br /><br />i mean, what's wrong with handling things the same way, despite being with different people?<br /><br />does that mean we're sacrificing what we want in a relationship JUST to make it work?<br /><br />hmmm...something new for me to ponder, and to blog about 8-)<br /><br />-avoch-Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26283787.post-37455993362546446152011-01-27T18:13:27.318-08:002011-01-27T18:13:27.318-08:00Hello :) Complex, no? Well, once you feel content ...Hello :) Complex, no? Well, once you feel content and into it,.. you won't notice all that you've done for someone who made you feel that way 'til you feel crushed on it. Nevermind that. We all have our own different ways of expressing our emotions :D The experiences we went through made us handle em probably, differently all the time. As did I. :P~nuTt*~https://www.blogger.com/profile/18149294592306074402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26283787.post-54804127906275340462011-01-24T05:06:32.395-08:002011-01-24T05:06:32.395-08:00hmmm, i dunno nutt. in my experience those who ...hmmm, i dunno nutt. in my experience those who 'go the distance to make it work' so to speak, is over-compensating. be it for their own insecurities, or tryin' too hard to impress the other person, or they're just tryin' to achieve what they perceive to be the 'perfect' romance.<br /><br />or maybe i'm just an advocate of being in love is all you need. haha!<br /><br />having said that, perhaps there's a difference between 'giving it your all' and 'feeling it all in your heart'. and maybe the key is to feel it, and express it in a way that will lead us to our common goal; which is to stay together 8-)<br /><br />oh, for what it's worth, i don't think writing about this is rubbish, i used to do it all the time. before the bitterness crept it LOL! keep it up ya!<br /><br />-avoch-Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26283787.post-2370326503373607882011-01-21T01:55:30.292-08:002011-01-21T01:55:30.292-08:00thanks for reading.. I had to get it out of my sys...thanks for reading.. I had to get it out of my system these rubbish.. lol.. <br />Abt ur first comment, well.. u dont have really have to keep the other person happy all the time.. i was just saying that signs of person who's already in love is that they will go the distance to make it work..as for those who don't give it their all.. well, that's not love, kan? :P<br />I quote again, "Maybe it is, because the important thing about a relationship is that you have to compromise to reach the similar goals you're trying to achieve - staying together."<br />If one had stopped believing.. then why go on with it? :D~nuTt*~https://www.blogger.com/profile/18149294592306074402noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-26283787.post-73307470702864479212011-01-01T03:06:42.091-08:002011-01-01T03:06:42.091-08:00fantastic post!
two comments; firsto, i don't...fantastic post!<br /><br />two comments; firsto, i don't quite agree with going the distance to make the other person happy, i mean, if they're happy with you, you can do the most mundane things and they'd still feel as if they've been on the best day out EVER kan?<br /><br />secondly; your statement about not blaming others for what happened if things don't work out. i must say, that is very very true 8-)<br /><br />-avoch-Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com